Face oils have been part of my routine for years, but for a long time I was using them the wrong way.
Instead of making my skin look smoother, they often left it shiny, heavy, or even a little bumpy by the end of the day. The extra shine also seemed to make my pores, lines, and skin texture stand out more—not exactly the healthy glow I was hoping for.
What I finally learned is that face oil usually looks greasy for three reasons: you’re using too much, applying it in the wrong order, or using an oil that is simply too heavy for your skin.
Once I started using fewer drops, applying them to slightly damp skin, and choosing lighter oils, my skin looked smoother and healthier instead of oily.
Here’s the simple method that made the biggest difference for me.

If your face oil keeps sitting on top of your skin or leaves you looking shiny instead of hydrated, don’t give up on it just yet.
Here’s the simple method that made the biggest difference for me:
The goal is to use just enough oil to lightly cover your whole face.
That’s it. Once I started using this small amount, my skin looked softer, plumper, more hydrated, and naturally glowing instead of coated with oil.
Face oil isn't the problem. Most of the time it's simply how you're using it. These are the mistakes that made the biggest difference for me.
Once I fixed those simple mistakes, everything changed.
Once you're using face oil the right way, choosing the right one becomes just as important.
I've found that lightweight, plant-derived oils leave my skin feeling soft and hydrated without the heavy, greasy finish I used to get from richer oils.
Here are a few reasons I keep reaching for them:
When I shop for a face oil, I look for one that's made specifically for facial skin and is cold-pressed, wildcrafted, or organic whenever possible. I also avoid oils with added fragrance or anything intended for cooking.
If you're planning to use a Kansa wand, choosing the right oil matters even more because it helps the tool glide smoothly without feeling too heavy or sticky. I share my favorite options in my guide to the best oils and serums for the Kansa wand.
If your skin is feeling dry or sensitive after exfoliating, my guide to gentle exfoliation over 40 explains how I like to combine exfoliation and face oils without overdoing it.
The best face oils shouldn't leave your skin feeling heavy or greasy. Instead, they should absorb well, leave your skin feeling soft, and add a healthy-looking glow.
If you're still wondering whether you should use a moisturizer, a face oil, or both, here's how I decide when to use each.
When I'm shopping for a face oil, these are the first things I look for:
If you think your face oil may simply be too heavy for your skin, start with my guide to Best Face Oils for Glowing Skin.
If you're interested in using essential oils like frankincense or rosehip, be sure to dilute them properly first. I explain how in my guide to Essential Oils for Wrinkles.
If you've been hesitant to try face oils, start with just a few drops at night and see how your skin responds. It may take a little trial and error to find the one that's right for you, but once you do, it can become one of the simplest steps in your skincare routine.
Face oils won't replace every skincare product, but they can help hydrate, soften, and support your skin as part of a balanced routine that includes gentle cleansing, exfoliation, moisturizer, and daily sun protection.
I'd love to hear if you've found a favorite face oil—or if changing how you applied it made a difference for you.
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